Serious problem with reactive language is that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. People become reinforced in the paradigm that they are determined, and they produce evidence to support the belief. They feel increasingly victimized and out of control, not in charge of their life. They blame outside forces - other people, circumstances, even stars - for their own situation. - Stephen R. Stephen Covey
So don't be reactive be proactive - watch your speech and listen in your self, study your self and understand your self - than you will know what is best for you.
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